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I really couldn't put it any better myself.
All your horse wants is for you to shut up.
He looks for ways every ride to get you to quit.
If you just shut up when he is doing it right, he will do it again to shut you up in the future.
By quitting at the right time and not pestering him (micromanaging) when he is doing it right you can always maintain a happy and willing partner.